Crate-training 101, or "Your dog's crate is your best friend."

Dogs and other pack animals have developed the behavior of sleeping in dens. So taking a new puppy and expecting it to be comfortable sleeping in the open on the floor, or on the bed with you is unfair and often will be an unsuccessful endeavor. Using a crate and teaching your new puppy to sleep in it will provide a multitude of benefits for both you AND your puppy. It provides your little pup with his special place where he/she can feel safe, secure and comfortable.

Either a wire crate or the many plastic commercial crates available today can work. Because of the 'security' component, and the closer approximation to a den, I prefer using the plastic crates with wire screen doors and windows. They are also easier to sanitize and move.

Pick a crate that fits your puppy - one where your puppy can turn around easily, but not big enough where he/she can run around like a wild banshee. Too large of a crate will make it more difficult for the pup to feel 'safe' and too small of a crate will be uncomfortable. If you are unsure of what will work, ask your vet for suggestions.

Here are my pointers on things you can do to help make your crate the best friend you AND your puppy can ever have:
- Always, always have the baby sleep in the crate at night – from the first time you bring them home if they don’t have their mommy with them.

- If they have siblings, consider having them sleep in separate crates next to each other

- While they are awake, you can leave the crate near you with the door open. That way they can go in and out when they want.

- After awhile, they often go in on their own to sleep with the door open

- Make the crate really comfy with old towels or other warm, cuddly comfort materials

- Leave some nice toys in the crate whenever you have to close them in

• Not kongs or other toys you play fetch with, but a soft stuffed animal; I have found larger stuffed animals (about 2/3 the size of the puppy) very effective.
• And a chew bone (depending on the ability to chew – don’t let them have one they can break pieces off – rubber or plastic work well). They often chew the bones when they are stressed or bored. It comforts them and helps to keep them quiet. Rubber ball or tennis balls in a tied up sock can also be good, but may teach your pup to go after socks in general.
• Just like little kids, if they seem to have a favorite toy, make sure it goes into the crate whenever they do unless the toy could be a choking hazard.

- They “usually” won’t mess their crate because their genetic behavior is to keep the sleeping den clean so predators can’t smell them

• That being said, it’s not unusual for a slip up (once they do that my experience is that they don’t like it and likely won’t do it again). If they do, change the linens as soon as possible, clean the crate and toys (and the puppy if necessary!) and don’t make a fuss about it.

- Every night when you go to bed, put them in the crate to sleep with the door closed

- Whenever you put the puppy in the crate put a few little treats in there. Soft treats (Trader Joes has some good ones) should be broken into little pieces and placed around the crate like easter eggs. The pieces can be as small as trident gum pieces…it is more about smell and taste than to get full on anything.

• While he is searching them out, quietly and gently close the door.
• Never give him treats through the grate of the crate – only inside. If you do give him treats through the grate, he will whine for them.

- Turn the lights out or down

- Say goodnight!

- This is up to you, but I strongly recommend (and have always been successful more quickly ) if at night they are close enough to see and hear someone sleeping in the room with them.

- If you get a whiner, try blocking their direct vision of you with a box or by draping something over that side of the crate, leaving the other sides of the crate exposed so they can still hear you.

- When it’s time to get up, go directly to them, praise them and take them out to pee as soon as possible.

• Young puppies can only hold their bladders a few hours depending on age and individual tendencies. It’s like a baby, you might have to wake up in the middle of the night, give them a little snack and take them out. Then back to the crate

- Many times the puppy whines in the middle of the night because their blood sugar is down. For a healthy pup, they usually should be fed every 8 hours – consistently.

• If you avoid free-feeding and feed on a regular schedule, the puppy will most likely also quickly develop a poop reflex. The puppies will be ready to poop soon as they finish eating.
• So, it becomes an easy routine, give the pup food. Then take the pup immediately outside ( when I have multiple pups, I make it easier by feeding them out on the grass and never inside until they are potty trained). Wait till they pee and poop (patience, patience).
• Then praise them, give them a treat and take them back in to play or the crate to sleep.

- Always take the puppy in the crate when you need to drive in your car – resist the temptation to have them ride next to you until they are older and trained to sit still and not pee.

• Again, make sure they have “safe” toys in the crate and that you carry extra towels and a plastic bag in case you have to make a quick clean up of the linens
• Put the treats in the crate to get them in, but don’t add more during the trip.
• Again, it is probably better if they can see and hear you.

- Schedule is EVERYTHING until they are big enough to keep their blood sugar and other bodily processes going steadily. So, if you can keep them to as close to a feeding sleeping schedule as possible, it will pay dividends in both a healthy and calm puppy.

- If you can’t go to sleep when the puppy has to, simply put them in their crate and turn down the lights. You can work quietly or watch TV in the same room.

- If they wake up during the night NEVER let them sleep with you. If they fall asleep in your arms, transfer them into the crate, make sure little treats are in there and close the door.

- If they get up and it is not time for them to eat, take them outside ON A LEASH. Don’t let them run around.

• Once they do their business, or show that they aren’t going to do their business, repeat the process you use when you first put them to sleep.

Any other crating tips out there?

Appropriate for first-time owners, maybe not!

The internet is a wonderful advancement for matching potential puppy parents with their new babies. The immediacy between availability and widespread notification of the puppy's availability has sped up the matching process immensely and undoubtedly helped to save many lives.

I have noticed that some of these internet listings include the phrase "appropriate for first-time dog owners." This has always bothered me. Like all puppies, all new owners are not created equal, so I am uncomfortable with anyone making the blanket statement that a particular puppy will do well with anyone who has had zero dog ownership experience.

From my perspective, first-time owners should NEVER get a puppy that is not already solidly potty-trained and doesn't yet have the fundamental sit, come, no biting and don't jump up commands down pat. That's because these are the behaviors that will create the most unhappiness when a person experiences them and doesn't have the tools to modify any improper behavior.

The result is that much too often pups will be punished inappropriately (for instance, shoving the puppy's nose into his poop) or puppies are returned, or puppies are unfortunately relegated to banishment outdoors.

So, if you are thinking about getting a dog for the first time and are attracted to the 'cuteness' of a puppy, think about these alternatives:
- Consider a slightly older, already trained puppy, 6 months to a year old; there are many of these puppies available at shelters and through rescue groups.
- Consider adopting an adult from a smaller breed that maintains 'puppy-like' qualities; for example, a Norfolk or Norwich Terrier or mix.
- Prepare to have an experienced trainer do in-depth work with both your puppy AND your family, at least until all the basics are completely under control

You will get the most enjoyment out of your puppy by having patience and waiting for the one that has the size, physical traits, age (there is a world of difference between 8 weeks and 12 weeks), behaviors and training level that will minimize your stress. Maximize your joy!

The myth that there is one "Right Way" to train puppies

When my friends were pressing me to start this blog, I researched the information already available on the subject. One of the first thing that stood out to me was that most of these resources espoused 'The Right Way' to train puppies. When I first saw that phrase it made me wince. If there is anything I learn with each new puppy in each new litter, there is no single right way to train any puppy. Each puppy is unique and like humans react differently based on his/her genetics, physical environment and learning to date. In a single litter, one pup may be totally food motivated so that training without treats is close to impossible. Others may be responsive to visual commands, verbal commands alone are less effective. Some can't stand being wet or soiled. Others relish rolling in their own poop.

What I feel very strongly about is the right way to train your individual puppy is to spend quality time observing your puppy. If you can't remember what you see, write it down. And when you start trying to train your puppy, treat every instance as a 'test and learn' opportunity. In college and graduate school, I studied learning theory and behavior modification. That's why many of my techniques and the process I go throug with each individual is based on a systematic series of observation, test and modification, repeated in a manner that moves us closer to the desired behavior. Even if something works, I suggest you also try something else. For instance, if you try motivating behavior with a affection and praise and that works, try it sometimes without the verbal reward. Then sometimes with only verbal praise. Try it back and forth and see what works better, or if one type of reward works better.

I prefer to train puppies using affection and praise as much as possible, using treats only when asking the puppy to go into its crate. I will be the first to admit this doesn't always work. You simply can't get some puppies' attention unless you give them a treat. However, I have found that with many, many young puppies, attention and praise, cuddling and rubbing whatever their favorite spot is (ear, chin, tummy) works best. And in my foster-mom role, I prefer to try to train the puppies so they will respond to their new parents without increasing their caloric intake, and so they equate their puppy parents as someone to obey even if they can't smell the presence of treats.

Even extremely young pups can learn basic behaviors such as being happy to be in a crate, being led on a leash, and believe-it-or-not, to be house-broken before they are 12 weeks old.

The important thing is like everything else, each individual has their own abilities and own time-table.

Rule #2: Start with a Complete Check-up

A thorough check-up is always less expensive and troublesome than a complete overhaul. So why do so many people who always have a car completely checked-out before they buy it not think about doing the same for a puppy?

There are some very good reasons to do this. First, a complete check-up can pick up issues your puppy may have that will require more care or a different training regimen. A puppy may be partially deaf or blind and not knowing this may cause you to misjudge your puppy's behavior. Vision and hearing impaired animals, like their human counterparts, may be more easily startled if something approaches unexpectedly, especially from the puppy's blind spot. Also, you may have interpreted your puppy's inability to be trained as defiance or lack of intelligence or motivation.

This goes beyond major challenges such as deafness, and includes possible physical limitations on diet or activity. Understanding a physical challenge will allow you to use training techniques that will be more effective. In the case where you as a puppy parent are unable or unwilling to deal with a special case puppy, it is best that you know as soon as possible so the puppy can be placed in a home where his / her issues will be best dealt with, and both of you will be happier.

Another reason why an initial complete check-up is so important is to determine baseline. By establishing a puppy's temperature and other vital signs, as well as noting gait and morphology, your vet will be better able to detect when something in the future is amiss.

Even the best breeders and rescue organizations may not have the time or ability to fully check out every puppy they sell. For your puppy's sake and yours, start with that complete check-up.

Do you have a puppy question???

If so, you can add a comment to this post or email us at joyofpuppies@gmail.com. Or if you want us to do some research on specific puppy topics or products, we're here to do that too.

Puppy stories you want to share are also always welcome. One of the reasons I started being a foster mom for puppies, is that I really enjoy observing behavior during a time where their physical and sensory development changes so rapidly. I love the challenge of seeing how much training we can achieve in a short time.

I'm also fascinated by the significant behavioral differences you see between the breeds. Jack Russell Terrier pups (and mixes) seem to love to run at your heels, high energy flashes of activity that can trip you if you don't watch out. Puppies from herding breeds like Border Collies, Welsh Corgis and Australian Shepherds exhibit definite herding behavior, even as little babies. My bull terrier mix puppies don't herd, even if I try to elicit the behavior. A rope chase game with those pups more often ends up in a tug-of-war than a game of chase.

Some of the puppies dig. Others won't ever dig, but jump. Tiny little dachshunds can generate huge deep-throated barking and are fearless, even in the presence of huge dogs five times as big. And it's all because of us humans. It's our intervention that caused the differences in size, appearance, physical capabilities and behavior between the breeds.

That's not to say that is a bad thing. It's akin to how different groups of people are attracted to different jobs. But, what is a problem is that people so often think that all puppies will react the same way...and are disappointed or punish their little terriers for digging, when that is a behavior that is their legacy.

So in a nutshell, making sure you understand the total package, including behavioral traits, BEFORE you pick you puppy and matching that to your comfort zone is the most important choice you can make.

Feeding the runt of the litter

Runts who are not submissive but simply lack the ability to position themselves in the litter for proper nourishment are easier to deal with. In extreme cases, they are rejected by the mother and have to be bottle fed. In most cases, they make it to weaning, but will lag in size and ability to thrive during this most important growth period.

When I have a litter of newly weaned puppies, I 'group' feed them so they can learn NOT to be surprised of react negatively to being bumped and pushed by other dogs when they eat. This goes a long way towards desensitizing the pups while they eat so they don't snap at other dogs or children (now and when they get older) when intentionally or accidentally touched during feeding.

When I have a runt puppy, I often can't leave him/her with the others because the runt won't get enough food to stay optimally healthy. What I like to do is to separate the runt...sometimes feeding them separately in their crate (even if the crate is usually shared with siblings during sleep time). This way the runt gets enough nourishment and should rapidly improve in weight. It also reduces the stress the puppy feels during feeding, so it helps reduce anxiety for the runt puppy.

But I quickly found out that if you do this with some runt puppies, they start to feel "superior" to the other puppies. This can make them a little 'bolder' than they should be when they are around their siblings again. This artificial boldness can be detrimental as it can upset the puppy hierarchy. The puppies learn from each other the consequences of what they should or shouldn't do. If a puppy decides that it doesn't have to 'play well with others' you can develop a thorny socialization problem.

So, to counteract this issue, I start separately feeding another puppy as soon as the runt has recovered to a more 'normal' size and weight -- when he/she is beginning to thrive. I start rotating all the puppies (including the runt) between solo eating and group eating. By separating two out, the remaining 'gang' at the group food dish is smaller and more manageable for the runt. And, no puppy is consistently the 'special' puppy. I have had this work to correct this artificial boldness and after a short time, the runt is big enough and socialized enough to eat with its siblings with no outside help.

Even if you don't have an entire litter of puppies to deal with, if you take a runt puppy home and have other dogs that you feed in the same area, you may still feel a need to separate the puppy for awhile because of the pup's fearfulness or agitation at feeding time. I would suggest you might then want to feed the runt in a crate that is very near the other dogs so they can see the bigger dogs but can still feel protected. You have to remember that this puppy just came from a litter where it was pushed around and deprived of access to food. Once it learns that it has free access to its food and doesn't have to equate feeding time to a wrestling match, you can start opening the crate door during feeding -- and eventually feeding your puppy outside next to the bigger dogs.

The fearful or highly submissive puppy

The extremely shy, reluctant or nervous puppy. Sometimes we pick them because our heart goes out to them, the underdog so to speak. Sometimes we pick them because we think they will be calmer, more docile and easier to control.

My feeling is that puppies that have this personality trait should never be adopted by a first-time dog owner. A fearful puppy can be much harder to train and require much more patience and understanding. In some cases, fearful puppies become more reactive and potentially more aggressive towards other dogs and people -- especially those they are meeting for the first time.

Warning signs of a fearful puppy can include the following:

• inordinate amount of shaking when approached
• hesitant or overwhelmed when approached
• immediate rolling over and showing his/her belly when you go near or touch the puppy
• overactive startle reflex in response to sound or movement
• reflex urination when approached
• fear of hands reaching out to the puppy
• refusing to go forward, backing up or freezing in place when on the leash

Overly submissive pups require a lot of patience, a calm environment and constant attention to socialization with new people and other dogs. However, fearfulness can be reduced significantly, making for a happy, enjoyable friendship. Unfortunately, if not handled correctly, it can escalate into high-anxiety for both you and your dog, and, sometimes highly aggressive behavior. If you suspect your dog may be fearful, if you take the time to get some help on socialization from an experienced dog trainer, you may save yourself a lot of frustration in the long run.

The dominant puppy

As mentioned in my previous blog, many litters will have a dominant puppy -- one who is more aggressive and potentially more active than the others. This is the natural order in wild dog packs and is critical to ensure the order and ultimately the health of the entire family. There is no time for debate. A leader has to emerge and proactively take charge. And successive generations have to keep producing 'heirs' to the leadership so there is a leadership succession, and when leader ages and is no longer the best to lead, a new leader that the rest of the pack respects needs to be available to take over.

What does the dominant puppy look like? The answer to that is not based on size or gender. It is not necessarily the first born. In fact, in my Aussie's litter, the dominant puppy was the smallest female pup, number 5 in the birth order. The only way you can determine which puppy is the dominant one in a litter is by observing their behavior. You will start to see, even when their eyes and ears are closed, certain puppies will push their way nurse first. Once they are mobile and active, you'll see them start to take control...pushing their will onto the other puppies. They will likely be quicker to react to perceived aggression, and move to the front when the food bowl is put down.

So, is it a good or bad thing to choose a dominant puppy? It all depends on what you are looking for. On the plus side, a dominant puppy will be more apt to be curious, to try things and by doing so, speed up training. They are also by definition, less timid, which can help with socialization with people.

Potential issues to be aware of include the tendency for dominant dogs to be overly aggressive with other dogs and potentially with people, especially small children. They may be very possessive of toys, sleep areas, food and of 'you'...their parent (which can cause problems with new human relationships you might start).

My feeling is that there is no good or bad about dominance. It's just helpful that you note if your puppy exhibits dominant behavior and keep mindful of that throughout your puppy's training. One very important thing (and this goes for all puppies, not just the dominant ones) is that you make sure your puppy knows that he/she is NOT the alpha, or ultimate leader of the pack. You have to be consistently and blatantly clear that the puppy, while loved and cuddled by everyone in the family, will never be allowed to exhibit dominance behavior on the humans in your family's 'pack.' If you fail to do this, your relationship with your dog will never be optimal, and can develop into serious problems.

Be aware that having ONLY you, the puppy parent higher on the dominance heirarchy can be an equally serious problem. I have seen situations where people think it is cute that the dog listens only to the mom or dad in the family, and doesn't respect the spouse or children. If the dog does have any aggressive, or even fearful tendencies, situations where the dog perceives danger or is stressed can result in the dog attacking the other family members...even if the dog had never attacked or shown aggression towards any family member.

Another very important issue to control for dominant pups is to make sure you pay attention to socialization with other dogs. It's a good idea to have your puppy 'on leash' when introducing him/her to another dog, especially for the first time, and maybe for the first few minutes even after the first meeting. Watch how your puppy reacts to the new dog. For his/her first dog acquaintance, it may help to choose a docile, low-energy dog. The size of the visiting dog may not be as critical, only that the dog doesn't show aggression towards the puppy or move in a manner that may startle the puppy.

My female Aussie was kept for awhile in a dogrun with a Rottweiler and a German Shepherd when she was young, before we got her. She was the dominant puppy of her litter, and that behavior was exacerbated during that time as she had to demonstrate to the other larger dogs that they could not steal her food. She was successful, and was respected by other dogs, but for the rest of her life, I had to take special care socializing her with other dogs, and I could never let down my guard when she came near dogs she never knew.

But even if you have a small dog who doesn't live with any other dogs, be mindful if your puppy exhibits dominant or aggressive or dominance behavior. If you notice aggressive behavior such as growling, barking and posturing, stop the behavior immediately. Also be extra careful when you take a dog with this type of personality on a walk or to a dog park. An overly dominant puppy or dog who has never been challenged by other dogs, especially one who has been taken from its mother early, may not know how to behave in the presence of other dogs. What he/she and you think is normal verbalization and high energy could be perceived by the other dogs as an outright challenge which could precipitate an altercation.

Dominance or submissiveness in a puppy does not determine how happy you will be with your puppy, or how happy your puppy will be. The responsibility for this lies with you, the puppy parents to provide the right socialization and training, and take care not to place your puppy in a situation that will instigate unwanted aggressive behavior.

Picking your puppy, part two: individual differences

Beyond picking what breed of puppy you want, it's equally important to study your specific prospective puppy for individual characteristics. It never fails to surprise me what a wide range of personalities exist in each litter I come into contact with. Since dogs are pack animals, there is often a dominant puppy. The dominant puppy will act and react differently, and sometimes more aggressively, than the others...and can act totally differently when it's only with humans than when it's with its siblings or other dogs.

On the other hand, exceedingly submissive or physically inferior puppies also have behaviors that should be watched and dealt with to prevent problems from developing.

Also, each puppy has its own physical make-up. I had one litter of puppies that were labrador and border collie mixes. All three were extremely well-behaved, but one seemed to lag in size. This smallest puppy was, at the same time, extraordinarily smart and loving. It turned out that that puppy had a congenital heart defect, a valve didn't close as it should. Luckily, for that puppy there were special funds put aside for rescued puppies just like him. However, the family that adopted him had to understand that this puppy would have to have annual exams to monitor his heart. He was matched with a family that had no problem dealing with that requirement, and a little boy and girl who now have an amazing friend.

If you are picking from a litter or selecting from a pen of various puppies, spend time watching it carefully with the other puppies, with you alone and if possible, around other grown dogs. Talk to them, handle them, and ask for any background information that might be available. Don't let yourself be pressured into taking a puppy because "there won't be anymore like this ever." This much I know is true. There will always be plenty of breeders and unfortunately, there will always be new rescued puppies available. Practicing a little self-control and choosing not to take a puppy that seems 95% right but something doesn't quite mesh will benefit you both in the long run.

Picking your puppy - pure or mixed breed?

At any time, my house is home to two pedigreed purebred Australian Shepherds, a rescued calico ragdoll mix kitty and various rescued mix-breed puppies. Time and circumstances as well as lifestyle and intent led me to make my choices of having both pure and mixed breed dogs. However, what is crucial for our happiness (and yours) is that we knew exactly what we were looking for before we make each pet selection.

There are characteristics predominant in the Aussies that make them perfect for us and terrible for our neighbors. From an attitude, activity, maintenance, time and resource perspective, the Aussies can be far easier or far more difficult to deal with than some of my short-haired tiny chihuahua mix foster babies. Knowing those differences and picking what is important to me in my life, at that time, results in everyone being happier, and training that is more appropriate and effective. You may be able to "train" an active dog to be less active. But that dog will likely be less happy and it will have taken you more effort than you would want to take.

Just like picking a spouse, you most likely will start with physical actractiveness - there's nothing wrong with starting there. But once you determine that, do your research. Find out if that puppy has the temperament and characteristics that match your lifestyle and attitude (good with kids, good in an apartment, etc.). Also, when dealing with puppies, learn what the puppy will grow up to look like. I have seen many people enamored with the insane cuteness of a baby bulldog, only to be put-off when that scampering puppy grows up to be the stocky lumbering adult. People who felt my Australian Shepherd puppies were "to die for" suddenly balked when I told them about the massive amounts of hair that needed to be brushed, and when they 'blew their coats' how often they would be vacuuming. Personally, I always wanted a Great Dane. But when I found out their life expectancy was so relatively short, I knew I personally couldn't get one.

Of course the internet is a great resource. However, I think it's a good idea to have a resource that you can page through to study breeds side by side. I love 'The Encyclopedia of the Dog' by Bruce Fogle, D.V.M., but there are several other very good resources that are equally good. One of the things I like best about Dr. Fogle's book is that it goes into a discussion about 'randon-bred' dogs, or what I call mixed breeds. There are lots of reasons why mixed breeds are easier to deal with than purebred puppies. For one, mixed breed puppies are hybrids, and hybrid populations will tend to be healthier and less prone to genetic issues because of the cross breeding.

But there are also things to watch out for as well, such as possible increased anxiety caused by living in a shelter. With puppies, there is less time for bad behavior to be built-up, and good foster programs can actually prepare abandoned mixed breed puppies better than purebred dogs whose breeders don't have the time or inclination to socialize and train the individual puppies.

If you decide to get a mixed breed puppy, find out how it was raised and if possible, what breeds went into its make-up. This is important to gauge appropriateness for your lifestyle. For example, mixed breed herding dogs still tend to exhibit herding behavior, just as chow mixes may tend not to be the best for families with small children. The breed heritage investigation doesn't have to be scientific. Asking what the parents looked like, how the puppy behaves and how quickly it has grown will go a long way to determining possible donor breeds. For those who want more definitive information, there are now canine DNA testing services that can more precisely determine a dogs breeding. These generally cost up to $100 to $200, so ask yourself if this is really necessary.

Rule #1: Get yourself a good vet you can work with.

Training infants of any kind takes extreme amounts of patience and concentration. So, to do a good job of it, it's best to remove any unnecessary distractions as quickly as possible. One of the most distracting things I often have to deal with when I get new puppies is the infamous "D" word, diarrhea.

There are a plethora of reasons why your puppy can get the runs. If you got your puppy from a reputable breeder, humane society or rescue group, chances are that their veterinary professionals will know or can narrow down the causes for your puppy's plight. But I strongly advise against you trying to find the cause yourself. This gets back to what I feel should be everyone's Rule#1 before getting a puppy, 'Find a good vet you can work with.'

I stress that it is a vet you can work with. All doctors have their own style. You need to find one that suits your needs and likes. I like to hear everything down to the nth degree of technical detail. Others want someone who will spare the details, but will talk to your dog with a kind, reassuring voice. You need to do this BEFORE you get your puppy. Rushing to find one while your puppy is running around shooting hot, wet poop everywhere is a big mistake. It will only delay you getting the situation under control and most likely add to your stress level.

Meeting the vet ahead of time also can help you answer some questions you might have about breed, gender and age of puppy to get. This may be simpler than it seems. You would be surprised how many vets will be practicing within 10 miles of your home. Ask your friends. Ask your co-workers. Press them to tell you what they like about their vets and what they don't like. Find a couple of prospects to visit, and go meet them.

I'm a realist. Lots of people won't go the last mile and meet the vet, much as they won't meet a doctor or dentist for themselves before they need them. But even if you don't meet them in person, asking around will find you a vet you will be more at ease with. And if you don't go to meet them, at least call or email and find out if they are taking new patients and what their hours, charges and payment terms are.

Becoming 'Puppy-mom'

If you read my profile, you'll see that I volunteer for Tony La Russa's Animal Rescue Foundation (ARF). It's a fantastic organization that saves animals who have run out of time at animal shelters around the San Francisco Bay Area and surrounding areas. My main role for ARF (http://www.arf.net/) is to take litters of young puppies who would otherwise be euthanized because they have run out of time at the shelter and raise them until they can be spayed or neutered...and adopted. See further below in this post to learn more about ARF and the wonderful work they do for rescued animals...and through animals, helping people.

People always ask me why I would spend so much time picking up puppy poop, sterilizing the puppy area before the new litter comes, and then picking up more puppy poop. But what amazes them even more is my ability to get really young puppies to respond to training. I have had puppies younger than 8 weeks with very good leash manners. They can sit patiently at the door before they go out. Some can learn to "do their business" outside by the time they are 10 weeks old. By 10 to 11 weeks, we can start with basic 'heeling' commands.

When people ask me how I do this, I realize I can't explain it in a short conversation. I know my education gives me a big advantage. Spending four wonderful, highly productive years at the University of California at Berkeley studying comparative and physiological behavior gave me the ability to observe, perceive and analyze behavior. My senior thesis studied the effects of genetic predisposition to learning. This experience armed me with the ability to interpret individual variations and to use a systematic 'test and improve' method to successfully modify behavior.

At the University of Hawaii, I was able to study with some of the leaders in the field of comparative learning theory and aggression. You add that background with my all-encompassing love of dogs, and it explains why I have both the patience and the skills needed to work with young puppies.

Because of this, a few of my friends who are fellow dog lovers and have had challenges with puppies in their lives asked me to start this blog.   So that is how "Joy of Puppies" and "Puppy-mom" got started.

More about ARF from the ARF website, http://www.arf.net/:

"ARF was created in 1991 by Tony and Elaine La Russa to address the needs of companion animals. Their vision for ARF is an organization that can not only aid abandoned and homeless animals, but also promote the concept that people's lives can be enhanced by strengthening the bonds between humans and animals. With these intertwined goals as the guiding principles, and an intention to become a national as well as local leader, ARF has designed progressive programs for many populations including abused children, the elderly, victims of violence and others who can benefit from the healing contact of animals.

ARF is growing to meet the demands of the 21st century with the first private adoption and education center in Contra Costa County, California. ARF will continue to respond to the immediate needs of animals who have been neglected, abused or deprived of love to ensure they find high quality homes. At the same time, ARF will embody the vision of a better future-one where animals are respected for the unique role they can and do play in making the world a better place for people to live and where there is a stable and loving home for every pet to complete its natural lifespan."

Joy of Puppies is Born!

Everyone loves puppies. But unfortunately, your life can become "hell on earth" after you bring that sweet, adorable angel home. More than most other things in life, the sight of a furry little pup’s big sweet eyes can make your ability to reason fly out the window and let emotions take over -- and just like in grade-school, you can forget to do your homework!

You may have already taken the plunge and brought a new puppy home…but find yourself lost for what to do. Well, just like in grade-school, there is help! I created this forum so you can get some helpful ideas from me, the Puppy-mom, someone who has had to figure out the “puppy-thing” many, many times before. You can also ask other Puppy-parents for tips that work for them…or at least form an online support group.

With a little bit of help, you can turn the agonies of puppy parenting into the “Joy of Puppies!”

Welcome fellow puppy-lovers!